Reason 1. Lack of attention and intimacy:
How long can you go without receiving love and attention before looking elsewhere? Some may last only days or weeks, and others may last for years. However, in general, women need and desire intimacy, physical touch, and mental and emotional attention.
If you do not get your husband or boyfriend, it will only be a matter of time and you can pick it up from another, that is to say, a caring friend, the attentive guy who feeds your Emotional needs at your workplace, the gym. Women without attention, compliments, and compassion; Generally, have emotional affairs. This does not mean that it will not lead to sexting, but initially, they need the attention and compassion that has been missing from their relationship.
Emotional issues also lead women to constantly test men to see if they are suitable mates. Why do women test men? Keep reading to find out.
Reason 2. Defeat:
Being cheated is a very difficult act to forgive. For those of you who have been deceived, you know how horrible it is. You feel cheated, hurt, angry, sad, numb and even violated. It also affects your self-esteem. At this moment, you discover your cheated man, your whole body starts to shake, you start to sweat, your stomach drops, and you feel nauseated.
Obviously, it negatively affects your relationship, your mood, your behavior, and your ability to trust the cheater ever. When you’ve been cheated, some of you may want to take revenge by making them feel the way you feel. This can lead you to cheat next. The biggest truth is that cheating never solves a relationship problem. Communication, assertiveness and growing passion and romance in your relationship are a much better solution.
Reason 3. Bad Sex
Women need to feel desired and experience REAL orgasms during sex. If women get bad sex, not enough sex, get emotional, or wham-bam-thanks-you-mam, you may end up losing interest in the relationship and look elsewhere for GOOD sex! This creates a temptation to seek sexual or emotional satisfaction elsewhere. In my opinion, it is better to communicate your needs to your man with the hope that he will climb it up a notch. You can do it yourself or with the help of a sex therapist.
Reason 4. Weight Loss / Plastic Surgery:
Male attention increases rapidly after boob work, an end-to-end implant or weight loss, and so does your self-confidence. With all this male attention, your temptation to cheat increases, and it takes more self-control to resist some of these masculine offers. Once you realize other guys you want, your desire to act on it may make you feel euphoric. However, be careful, act wisely and make your pros and contras list.
Reason 5. Financial independence:
When you feel financially dependent on your husband or boyfriend, it’s harder to talk in arguments or leave the relationship. The fear of being alone and financially unstable keeps you in a downward position. Now that women make their own money, love to work, and are good at it, the need to stay in an unhappy relationship is not necessary. This feeling of power and independence can be like seeing the red carpet set up for you; All the way to these other fish in the sea.
Reason 6. Low self-esteem:
When you feel unsure of yourself, you need to seek the validation of others. This can take the form of sexual, emotional or intellectual attention. When you do not love or esteem yourself, you can project that onto the person you are in contact with and believe that they do not like you or do not like you. Even if your husband or boyfriend likes you a lot, you can still cheat because you have trouble accepting their unconditional love. I suggest reading one of the many self-help books out there about building your self-esteem or getting tips to help improve self-confidence.